Men in love with married woman?

he is definitely only using her for . he made that very clear by implying one day she will meet a good guy for her. if he wanted to be that good guy he would have said "hopefully one day, we can be together officially" but that is obviously not what he wants. this scenario is any mans dream...vulnerable woman in an unhappy unstable marriage looking for excitement elsewhere. with that he gets all the he wants without the commitment. oh and if he ever wants to sleep with someone else besides her...she cant say sh*t about. its such a sweet deal for him. tell ur friend to get some morals and quit this...its terrible.