Should I get the Swine Flu vaccine?

I am 13 years old and have Lupus of the skin and possible bones.I also have a weak immune system. I live in New Jersey and have no herd of any swine flu deaths here. I already have the flu shot. I am worried about getting it because I hear that people die from it and become permanently parralized. I certainly don't what that to happen to me. My dad wants me to get the H1N1 vaccine, but my mom is not to sure because of the parralized and death thing. She is going to research it more. Do you think I should get it? Should I be worried?